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A cup of coffee

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Dropped a cup of coffee on my light colored Berber carpet this morning. Well, doesn’t this type of thing start your day off right?

Speaking of coffee, and conversations over same that occur between friends, I found this week that I had lost a friend. No, no, not that kind of loss. The person is whole and healthy and happy.

No, what happened was the start of a conversation where one begins to fill in the blanks; the fun process of discovery and shared communication. And then events changed, and perspectives changed, and communication stopped, and a friendship died aborning. You don’t have years invested so you can’t cry tears when a friendship stops before it even has a chance to start. However, you’re left with the feeling of reaching out for the brass ring, and then the ride ends.

Time for another rub at the carpet with my handy spray bottle of Simple Green. Wouldn’t it be nice if they invented transparent coffee?

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Just Shelley

Dream a little dream

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Stars shining bright above you
Night breezes seem to whisper “I love you”
Birds singing in a sycamore tree
Dream a little dream of me.

Mama’s and Papa’s Dream a Little Dream of Me

I can’t possibly be the only person who builds up unrealistic expectations, only to have the dawn of day and the smell of coffee make you realize that honey child, you can dream all you want, you’re just not going to get what you’re dreaming for. Of. About. Is that a dangling participle?

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Weblogging

Short form, Long form

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I can see that others have added some input to the short form, long form, RSS debate, including our own Mike SandersMeryl Yourish, and dare I say community newcomer, Will Leshner, as well as Dave (of course), and Jon Udell.

I think in some ways, Jon, you and I will probably never agree on the importance of RSS, because you see weblogs as a source of information, and RSS enables this. I see weblogs as part of my community, interconnecting with other communities through links related to stories, or meeting within comments or even blogrolls. Your approach is automation, my approach is less efficient, but effective for me.

Ultimately in the end, as Meryl eloquently puts it, there is no right or wrong way to write a weblog. And RSS is just an associated technology — nothing more, nothing less.

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Weblogging

Laughter is the best medicine

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Feeling poorly and in a world of hurt, all compounded by copious amounts of feeling sorry for myself and being really pissed at the American Medical Establishment and its brethren, the insurance companies.

Then in my daily Plutonian read I found this posting at Flutterby on cat pictures, which led me to an archived posting of Cam’s from Camworld, which led me to this movie, which put me on the floor in laughter.

They say that laughter is the best medicine. I don’t know, laughter hurts like hell for me right now — but I’ll smile all day because of this one and that ain’t no small thing.

 

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Weblogging

Userland’s Influence

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Geez but I liked Jonathon’s posting today. Sure it’s meta-blogging, but so what? He’s saying what he thinks and that is a goodness. And if you don’t like it, change the friggen channel. Especially since I’m going to continue on the theme he started.

In his post, Jonathon provided his interpretation of something that Dave was saying:

if webloggers blogged properly (i.e. they followed the rules), there wouldn’t be a problem with RSS feeds.

Damn, that was good.

I nip at Dave Winer’s and Jonn Robb’s heels frequently not because I feel it’s my moral obligation to make their lives a living hell. It’s because I’ve seen Userland’s influence on technology and technological directions in the past, particularly with RSS and the concept of subscription services (and on P2P but that’s another story). My hope is that I can, in some small way, help to provide some counter-influence so that one Voice does not speak for all.

RSS newsfeeds. Quick soundbites, push as much information on to the queue as possible, skim it, scan it, blurb it, blob it — create a great mish mash of information. He who reads the most wins. He who posts the most wins. RSS and subscription newsfeeds and channels are becoming the Cliff Notes of weblogging. Except that at least with Cliff Notes, you know that the full context exists elsewhere.

What happens in a weblogging world consisting solely of soundbites and links if we follow the hypertext trail from start to finish and realize that it was nothing but a trail and there is no substance? Talk about the ultimate vapour trail.

This isn’t a Coke commercial and I can’t invite the whole world to sing with me. I can’t read every weblog and every news source and I don’t even try. What I can do is discover, one by one, people who’s voices have reached me at some point, and whom I visit daily to see what they have to say. This is my community. It is an open community because anyone is welcome to join if they like what I say and what other community members say (like not being the same as “agree with”, you understand).

This week, I have offended people with my description of “bible thumpers” and the Pentecostal faith in an earlier posting. I know because they’ve emailed me. When you express an opinion, someone somewhere won’t agree with you. I expressed my views, and I shared some history — my weblog, my views.

Still, how would I soundbite my posting on religion? Would I title it, “Religions I’ve come to know and discard?” Cliff Notes version suitable for framing within RSS:

Mike asks about belief. My response is I’ve tried out a lot of religions, some good, some not so good, and at this time my own views are personal. Read more….

Short, simple, won’t clog RSS feed machines, and contains hypertext links to another weblog and a longer essay — Dave, you gotta love it.

Bah!

I tried the “short post, read more link” thing earlier this week with a couple of technology posts, to see how it works for me. Well, it feels hokey. It’s nothing more than taking a weblog posting out of context and putting it into a technology friendly format.

The day I start conforming to what is “proper” weblogging technique, the day I start following the advice of articles about Better Weblog Writing techniques, and the day I let technology limitations and page rank systems determine what I write and how I write it, is the same day I quit this whole damn thing.