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Shelleymite

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Most webloggers post links to interesting tidbits or other weblogs, inserting comments as appropriate. Other webloggers post notes to their blogs about events in the day — writing to a diary in the sky. There are funny weblogs and mad weblogs and work weblogs and awards weblogs and so on.

And then there are the ones like me, who drop everything in your lap with the ease of the clumsiest of waiters. I’m blue, you’ll hear about it. I’m sad, you’ll hear about it. I’m mad — well, we already how much you hear of that.

With me, you’re all peeping toms, except instead of peeking through a window and seeing my naked body, you’re reading my weblog and seeing my naked soul. On a daily basis, I scrape part of my existence off, and serve it to you on toast made of cosmos and thinly stretched wire. Shelleymite.

Good, now that the squeamish have left, we can get down into some deeper talk.

I walked along the beach tonight as sunset folded into the darkness and thought about the funny directions my life has taken, and the directions it will be taking. I thought about my decision to move to St. Louis and what that meant, and I knew that this was a path I’m no longer meant to take. My direction lies elsewhere now. I’ll make my home as best as I can in the shadow of the bridges.

I thought about my writing and my weblog and about you, who are reading this.

And one final thing I thought of: I will no longer celebrate my love of life and my delight in people by allowing ugliness on this weblog. I may write of things that aren’t pretty, and I may be shallow or twisted and I may burn and I may laugh and cry or pontificate and tease and joke and a host of other things — but I will not allow ugliness on this weblog again.

My guarantee. Not to you, no offense. To myself.

Shelleymite — tastes just like chocolate.

Update: And all my regular weblog readers are going “Yeah. Right. We’ve heard this before. Pull the other one, Shelley.”

No seriously. I mean it this time. Honest. Cross my heart. <edit />

 

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Places

Calm Waters

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The water of the Bay is remarkably calm today, almost glassy in spots. A very rare occurrence.

There was a sailboat fairly close to shore, and I could actually see it’s reflection in the water. It was a very pretty sight.

Unfortunately, the lack of wind that helped calm the waters also calmed the boat’s sails — my joy in the sight of the boat probably suffers in comparison to the curses of the sailboat captain who must now turn on his or her motor in order to continue.

Enough distraction, back to MT.

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Weblogging

Having Fun

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Christine over at Blah Blah Blog is so into the Anti-Bloggies that she’s using a timer to tell her when it’s okay to vote.

Now, I like that kind of passion!

This last year we haven’t had much chance to indulge in a lot of grins and giggles, and I’m having enormous fun cutting lose with anti-bloggies, Google Instant Messaging, G’Whacking, and all the other essential nonesuch.

So, get your cute little hind ends over to Christine’s, check out the list she’s compiling (I’m adding a few nominations of my own), go to the anti-bloggies, vote for one or all members of the list, and join me in a grin and a giggle.

After all, if we’re not here to have fun, why bother?

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Weblogging

Winerlog

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No sleep for me tonight. Time to take care of one of the causes.

I wasn’t going to give space to the Winerlog/Winer issue, but circumstances have changed. The issue has gone beyond the boundaries of these two individuals, and is now impacting on me as well as others.

As mentioned briefly at Dave Winer’s Radio Blog, Dave and the Userland folks found a Yahoo Group for Zaphod, the entity behind Winerlog. It seems that Zaphod, rather than creating a personal email, created a Yahoo Group and then attached this email to his weblog. People — including myself — have sent correspondence to Zaphod, thinking we were sending private emails, and only this week finding out we aren’t.

As you can imagine, this has caused difficulties for more than one person. And from the tone of Dave’s posting, the difficulties will continue.

Tonight I sent the following email to the Yahoo Groups Abuse organization detailing the problem. It goes as follows:

    • exact copy:

The leader of this group — who calls himself “zaphod” — has deliberately misled people into thinking that the email address of the Yahoo Group was an email address for the individual, associated with this weblog.

(The weblog used to be located at winerlog.editthispage.com, and is now at winerlog.weblogger.com.)

People have sent this person private correspondence, which was then — without their prior knowledge or approval — posted into the public Zaphod group.

This information was to some extent negative about a specific individual, Dave Winer, and a specific company, Userland. Both the individual and the company received information about these postings and read many of them Thursday resulting is some very serious consequences — personal and professional — against those who unknowingly posted to Yahoo groups.

I was one of the people who sent a couple of the email messages, though mine were fairly innocuous — luckily. However, I’m outraged at the duplicitous nature of the individual in question, Zaphod, and the abuse of a freely available group communication system such as groups.yahoo.com.

At this time, the public does not have access to the group but this could change at the whim of the individual. In addition, I’ve asked for access from Zaphod to see if my material has been posted, but he has not responded. Nor has he responded to others asking the same.

If the information contained in the group is released difficult consequences will occur for several people, the extent of which you can see outlined in the weblog posting at http://radio.weblogs.com/0001015/2002/01/31.html#a920.

We need your help, and quickly. The best approach would be to destroy the group and all postings. However, barring that, please allow each individual in the group a chance to have their email messages removed before the group is allowed access by the public.

We need expedited handling of this issue.

end of exact copy

In case you’re curious about the emails I wrote, they are as follows:

Hi Zaphod the mysterious

You show my site at it’s old address — Burningbird has moved to http://www.burningbird.net/weblog/ BTW, you might be interested in some of the postings a bit earlier in the week…

Have fun in the new year 😉

Shelley


Regarding RDF: Jeff Barr of Syndic8 created a wikisite to comment on this, as well as provide everyone a copy of the letter. Jeff gave me permission to post a link to it at my weblog at http://burningbird.net/weblog/2001_12_30_burningbird_archive.php#8409007. However, people are most likely tired of hearing about my weblog on your weblog, so you should probably post to the WikiSite directly (Jeff will probably be cool with this). I’m trying to generate some buzz for Jeff — he deserves it.

Interesting: Do a Google on Dave+Winer+RDF

Shelley

Among the items posted at the group was Dave’s phone number. He mentioned this in yesterday’s weblog, then pulled it when he started receiving calls from the “Hate Dave” crowd.

This issue has gone beyond the bounds of decency, respect, civility, and is now bordering on the criminal. There is no word in the English language that expresses by disgust of this individual who calls himself Zaphod.

I would ask that Dave re-consider negative actions against those who innocently posted information to the group. Ultimately, this adverse action will impact negatively on Userland. I know that it’s difficult and believe me when I say that I am now just as angry as you are when it comes to this issue, but take your anger out at Zaphod, not the individuals.

Everyone makes mistakes.

Dave, you wanted to take this issue to the lists, but that will only continue the harm. We need to stop this thing now. Let’s stop this whole thing now.

As for me, in the last few days, I’ve been so disappointed at this behavior, and so angry, that I’ve strongly contemplated giving up weblogging. However, I’ve met too many people I like within the blogging space that I’m not going to be giving it up, not even because of an issue as ugly as this.

I’m asking my weblog readers to get involved in this issue. First, write Yahoo Groups and repeat the request to destroy the group. Second, if you link to Winerlog, ask yourself this question — how good do you feel about having that link now?

Third — be very careful from this point on what you put into an email attached to a weblog. Don’t put anything into the email that you wouldn’t like to see public. Because of the actions of Zaphod/Winerlog, we’ll have to exercise more caution, and less trust, in our communications.

And this saddens me beyond what I can say in this posting.

 

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Weblogging

Insolent Puppy

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Insolent puppy! Arrogant little cock of the walk!

Sorry, bleed through from my technology weblog.

Agree with me. Disagree with me. Tell me I’m wrong and prove it. But don’t come into my territory as an arrogant and condescending asshole and expect to walk away intact.

I feel better! It’s like striking a match — I needed something to get me burning again in order to throw off this lingering funk I’ve been in lately. “Uninformed stuff” and “Confused and Sloppy” writing is doing the job nicely!

I’m beginning to feel like my old self again. And this calls for a whole new song.